July 2017: Updates and Future Plans

It’s currently half past five in the morning (actually, it’s now half past midnight of the next day – but we’re not splitting hairs here as I’ve my own to deal with) and instead of being all snug in my bed, sound asleep-I am writing a blog post and preparing Sunset Valley to play. 1 So, since this is titled Updates and Future Plans, let’s get on with the updates.e

To begin, my Mom is currently in a nursing and rehabilitation center with a broken left femur. She will be coming home around the beginning of August, which will make our dog Colby happy. Because of course as much as he adores me-he loves Mom, which is a bit funny considering that I’m the one who feeds him and puts him outside to use the bathroom. I’m also the one who takes him for walks when it’s cool enough to do so, Mom says it’s because he knows she pays for his food. *shrugs*

I’ve accidentally uninstalled the WriteADay-so priority is on reinstalling it and doing it every day in August. So as you can probably tell my plan to write more has fallen to the wayside. I’m going to put all of my current WIPs, poems, etc. on here under the owner tab – and of course, it goes without saying, but I’m saying it anyhow, you are not to use any of my writings, designs, artworks, etc. without express written permission. This is defined as an actual written letter from yourself to me asking permission to use whatever you want to use, and receiving a letter from myself either granting or denying the usage.

Moving on with plans since I’ve already begun discussing them in the last paragraph, I’ve decided that I need to be more serious about owning a website. The reason for this is that while I have free hosting – thanks to IceGlow Hosting, I still have to pay for the domain itself, plus anything needed to keep it running and make it a success. This includes college-rule notebooks/paper, my cell phone2, and any programs, etc. that make the site look better, run better, etc. For those of you worried that Eristically will become cluttered, don’t be – I prefer clean, simple layouts so the advertisements will be kept to a minimum and they will naturally be for places that I feel provide excellent products and/or services.

Back to a quick update, I’ve recently decided that I want to start sending out a weekly newsletter, provided that I actually remember to add content. If no new content is added, then no newsletter will be sent out. However, I have no idea what plugin/service to use.

My doctor’s appointment mentioned in the last update went well – I got a new pill to help with my anxiety/insomnia and I had to go get a mammogram done. I also have a dermatology appointment scheduled-but I’ll probably reschedule it for the reason mentioned above. Plus there is the fact that I don’t remember when the appointment is, and I lost the page I wrote it on.

Back to Colby for a bit, his ingrown dewclaws have been dealt with and he is updated on his shots. I wish that I would’ve remembered to film him a bit after the visit – he got a numbing(?) shot and he was definitely not having it, but it was still funny and cute.

I really don’t have anything else regarding updates. As for plans, I am currently searching for emojis to use on the site-I know what I’m looking for but I’m just having trouble finding them. I also have two more posts in the planning stage-one I have to finish reading a book, the other is more at the beginning stages.

For those of you who don’t know, The Sims is one of my obsessions and has been since I first played it back in 2000. If I recall, I used a part of my money from school to purchase it. Anyhow, it’s part of the reason that I’m wanting to get a new computer (this one to be exact). I’ve recently ordered The Sims 3 Expansion Bundle, which includes both World Adventures and Generations. I’ve owned World Adventures in the past, so I’m looking forward to having it again. The Generations expansion pack is completely new to me – although from what I understand, it gives you the option of sending the kiddos to boarding school(?!). Would anyone be interested in seeing screenshots from my current family?

So, I’m off to finish the book I’m currently reading as it’s due tomorrow and to play The Sims for an hour or so. Then off to bed, I hope everyone’s having a great week so far!

  1. Tweet me if you know what I mean with the phrase – Gummy Pancakes are the bomb!
  2. That is currently not working due to SIM card issues
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June 2017: Life Update and Explanations

Yikes! I just realized that it’s been over a month since my last post, and I would love to tell you that it’s because all kinds of blessings have entered my life and I’ve been enjoying it to the fullest. But sadly that’s probably the farthest thing from the truth – I’ve been dealing with a period where I feel the urge to write but I just cannot find any actual motivation to do it. This fact causes me to be anxious and depressed, which then makes the whole not being able to write situation even worse. I know this wasn’t much of an explanation – but it’s the truth, and I’m working on ways to combat it and keep it from happening again.

For those of you who’ve been here before, you’ll recognize the format, so to speak of this next part…nothing will seem to go together, and it will probably make little sense. Before I begin, I’d like to say that I’ve recently installed an app on my phone called WriteADay that I’m using to put any random thoughts, story ideas, blog post ideas, etc. So basically what this section is going to be will be the past week from there. I’ll probably do this on a weekly basis – then I won’t have to stress out about what to write at least once a week. Right now, that’s all I can handle – there will be another book review coming up.

  • I need to do some writing for my blog, and I know what I need to write. But the problem is that I really don’t have the slightest idea of what to write about myself. What do people want to know about others?
  • I am beginning to think that I can no longer refer to myself as a writer because I haven’t been doing much of it lately. I need to figure out what’s causing my lack of interest in writing and all related tasks.
  • Colby, my dog, recently had an ingrown dewclaw – which if y’all follow me on Twitter and that caused no small amount of stress. He is already like a toddler, he has major separation anxiety.
  • I have a doctor’s appointment the first week of July, and I need to remember to ask my doctor about a few concerns that I currently have regarding a certain feminine issue.
  • Taco Bell recently opened re-opened in my hometown, and it has been crazy busy. I suppose that it makes sense – I mean, the only types of restaurants we have/had are McDonald’s, Hardees, Dairy Queen, and three local places. We definitely needed a place that served something beyond burgers, old fashioned home cooking, and Italian food. We also have a place that serves Mexican and Chinese – but I don’t count them as I refuse to eat at both places for reasons. Anyhow, since it’s been crazy busy my Mom and I have discovered that the best time to go is currently for breakfast. I am loving their Cinnabon Delights.
  • I am currently testing L’Oréal Paris RevitaLift Triple Power Deep-Acting Moisturizer, thanks to Influenster who sent it to me for free! If you want to receive products to test, you should definitely click my link to join. For the curious,
    you can see the before of testing this product on my Instagram.
  • I need help writing the next post – beyond the book review and the next weekly life update. I am asking that you please go to this tweet and like it. I’d like to have at least forty to fifty more likes before I write the post, and of course, I’ll also tweet a fact for each like.
  • I am going to be posting something very important to me and my writing in the next couple of days on Snapchat – so click to add me! I really need some advice about what to do.
  • I spent a couple of days obsessed with edible cookie dough by The Cookie Dough Café – available in Illinois at Walmart or online at their site. If you’re the type of person who’ll make cookies just to sneak bites of the cookie dough, then you definitely need to get this. I’m not going to tell you why you really shouldn’t be doing that – because you know the reasons.
  • I am currently reading American Gods by Neil Gaiman, and I am obsessed with it. Originally I decided to get it because I couldn’t watch it on TV, and I figured that the book would squash the desire to watch it.

    As you can probably tell, it only increased my interest in watching the show.

I honestly cannot think of anything else that I need to put in this post – and it’s half past two so I’m going to moisturize my face and go to bed. Have a great week!

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Review: The Gatekeepers by Chris Whipple

The Gatekeepers by Chris Whipple
Published by: Crown Publishing on April 4, 2017
Genre: History, Politics, American Government, Executive Branch
Pages: Hardcover, 384 pages
Source: Goodreads

The first in-depth, behind-the-scenes look at the White House Chiefs of Staff, whose actions–and inactions–have defined the course of our country.
What do Dick Cheney and Rahm Emanuel have in common? Aside from polarizing personalities, both served as chief of staff to the president of the United States–as did Donald Rumsfeld, Leon Panetta, and a relative handful of others. The chiefs of staff, often referred to as “the gatekeepers,” wield tremendous power in Washington and beyond; they decide who is allowed to see the president, negotiate with Congress to push POTUS’s agenda, and–most crucially–enjoy unparalleled access to the leader of the free world. Each chief can make or break an administration, and each president reveals himself by the chief he picks.
Through extensive, intimate interviews with all seventeen living chiefs and two former presidents, award-winning journalist and producer Chris Whipple pulls back the curtain on this unique fraternity. In doing so, he revises our understanding of presidential history, showing us how James Baker’s expert managing of the White House, the press, and Capitol Hill paved the way for the Reagan Revolution–and, conversely, how Watergate, the Iraq War, and even the bungled Obamacare rollout might have been prevented by a more effective chief.
Filled with shrewd analysis and never-before-reported details, The Gatekeepers offers an essential portrait of the toughest job in Washington.

I was going to begin this review by stating that there are some books that should be read by certain college/university majors and that this is one that should definitely be read by political science majors. While I still think this should be an essential read for political science majors, approaching the review in that manner isn’t me or my personality. So, without further fanfare, here is what I seriously think about this book.

Upon first reading the title, I immediately thought of the Gatekeeper for the Emerald City – to the Wizard of Oz, whose job/duty was to prevent unsavory characters from entering the city and meeting with the wizard. In a sense, this thought is correct – but in another, it was completely wrong. These gatekeepers don’t want to keep the Wizard/President from being seen or talked with, they instead want to help the President achieve the goals he set up to better the country. However, they also differ in the difficulty faced by those who hold the position of Chiefs of Staff or Gatekeepers if you prefer, while also showing the amount of influence, or if you’d prefer the effect, they have over the President and World events.

The author opens by mentioning a meeting held December 5, 2008 to assist the incoming chiefs of staff for the newly elected 44th President, Barack Obama. The description of this meeting serves to show just how difficult, how important the job of the Chiefs of Staff is – how they affect History. Emphasis is placed on the amount of political knowledge at the meeting, the amount of history, but each person (each male) in attendance only gives the incoming Chiefs of Staff, Rahm Emanuel, a single piece of advice.

I pictured this meeting as a combination slumber party/answer to that age-old question about inviting anyone from history to dinner, with the catch of you can only ask each guest a single question. Just imagine having dinner with Nikola Tesla, Adolph Hitler, Anne Frank, etc. and knowing that the knowledge you receive from them could possibly affect the entire world. The amount of stress, anxiety that one would have before, during, and after this event would be astronomical. The fear that you would interpret something that they told you in the wrong manner and cause the end of the world – or the person who you’re discussing this advice would interpret it wrong. Now, imagine the person receiving this advice is more than likely an upper-middle class, Caucasian male – do you still feel good about your odds? What if you knew that the person they were discussing the advice with was indirectly responsible for the lives of over 300 million people, and that you have virtually no say over who influences this person?

Now, I don’t know about you – but the thought of this scares me more than a little bit. This is a situation that as citizens of the United States we face every four years when we elect a new President and sometimes a President changes his Chiefs of Staff while still in Office – we choose who is the visible representation of our country, but we don’t have a say over the person who “is the president’s closest adviser and who the president depends on to execute their agenda.” This person is neither elected nor confirmed, serves at the whim of the president, and their entire job, security, and all rests solely with the president.

Can I just begin by admitting that I didn’t pay much attention to the first two or three chapters? This is mainly because while I understand the importance of learning history so that we aren’t doomed to repeat it, I still find it more interesting if I were alive during the events in question. It helps to know how others who were more connected to the event reacted to what had happened – outside of what the media tells the public. This particular chapter discusses the presidency of Richard M. Nixon, and the subsequent Watergate scandal. It shows how Nixon’s Chief of Staff H.R. Haldeman allowed Watergate to happen because he was unable to tell Nixon the truth – that the taping of certain conversations should not have happened, that what he was asking to be done was not constitutionally permitted. One is left with the question of whether or not Haldeman performed his job well, and according to Donald Rumsfeld, he “executed the President’s desires, a little too well.” Despite this fact, the format for being Chief of Staff is based on Haldeman and what he did.

Then we come to what happens when a President resigns, and a woefully unprepared Vice-President suddenly becomes President. In fact, Gerald Ford wasn’t even Nixon’s first choice for his Vice-President…he wasn’t even the second choice. He became Vice-President due to the first Vice-President resigning due to a bribery scandal, and Nixon’s needing someone who could be confirmed without a fight. As a result of his being both popular and uncontroversial, he became Vice-President. So, Gerald Ford became known as the “accidental president” on 9 August 1974.

Being president of the United States is a stressful and difficult job during good times, but Ford faced a set of daunting challenges: the Soviet Union was inciting communist insurgencies around the world; Congress was hostile; the press was both cynical and emboldened, and South Vietnam was on the brink of collapse. He had to deal with all of these problems with a team of people who were virtually strangers. Rumsfeld compared it to being on an airplane and having to take control when it was headed straight for the ground, while not knowing the crew. Ford responded to this by stating the majority of the staff would remain the same – minus Haldeman who was off to jail, and Haldeman’s successor General Alexander Haig would become Chiefs of Staff.

The best description of Ford’s White House would be a kid’s soccer game – where everyone is running after the ball, and no one knew what they are doing. Everyone involved expected to have full access to the President at any given moment, that they would all report to the President, also known as the spokes of the wheel. Rumsfeld had no problem with letting Ford know that this was fine for a Minority Leader in the House of Representatives, but wouldn’t work for the President of the United States. At first, Ford decided to run the office his way – and Rumsfeld went back to his post as ambassador to NATO.

This decision was reversed when the following events happened – Ford made the decision to pardon Richard Nixon, and his approval rating plunged to 49 percent – down from 71 percent. They also learned that his wife, Betty Ford, had breast cancer and would have to undergo a radical mastectomy. Ford discovered that Haig was ineffective and that he would have to choose a new Chiefs of Staff. He chose Donald Rumsfeld, whom he called at his father’s funeral in Illinois.

Now, of course, we’re reaching the Carter years, which are the years that I was actually alive…or rather I was an infant. I found everything after this a bit more interesting – mainly due to the fact that I feel history is a bit more interesting if you’re alive while it’s happening. I went through the Carter, Reagan, Bush, Clinton, Bush, and Obama years relatively quickly as they were a basic review and refresh of events that I vaguely remembered.

Overall, The Gatekeepers by Chris Whipple was a very well-written, informative nonfiction book – the author did an excellent job of making the scenarios seem as if they were currently happening, and making you realize that every action and reaction of the President and his/her advisers have on the world around us. I would like to thank Blogging for Books for sending me a complimentary copy of this book, and that I was not compensated in a monetary value for this review. I would also like to say that I promise to get better at these – and I will hopefully be able to get the UBB plugin before my next review.

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Hello, World!

Am I the only one who finds it a bit unusual that WordPress titles the example post “Hello World”? The majority of people simply delete it and move on with their lives, while a select few try to utilize it to the best of their abilities. So, which category do I fall under – do I delete or do I use? It honestly depends on a few different factors – the reason for blogging, mood when I restart blogging, and preparedness for blogging.

Then we mustn’t forget the fact that “Hello World” is in its simple form – a greeting, an introduction, and an anticipation. I know that many of you are thinking to yourself, how can a simple two-word title mean so much? I want you to look at it this way – body language, where we place emphasis also helps to get our meaning, our intent across. Basically, “Hello World” is WordPress’ way of saying to be careful about what you are posting…or as usual I’m reading too much into nothing. Nevertheless, this the first post of Eristically, at its new home, is a greeting to those currently reading it, and introduction to both the site and myself, and just a bit of anticipation thrown in for good measure.

So, the greeting part is relatively simple and allows both of us to progress to the introduction, which is both the longest section and the most difficult to write. The greeting is also the title…which means that I need to move on with the debut.

I am going to operate on the assumption that you somehow came across Eristically via a search engine or someone else’s site, and if you did please leave a comment to let me know how you found me. Also, if you don’t want to read all of this right now, a summary is in the sidebar and if you’re really interested in me and my life, a longer version will be under the Owner section in the menu above. To start, my name is Jessica Mezo and I am 36 years of age. I have no children, no significant other, and no special skills AKA no college/university degree. I cannot play any instruments, I sound like a love-sick cow when I sing, and I am at best cute with more than a bit of work. I am, however, an insomniac who is trying to raise money to purchase my first vehicle, to renew this domain at the end of October, to purchase a new computer, and to go back to college to get my degree in both Library Science and Creative Writing. My eventual goal is to become a published author – currently, I have three or four book ideas; to travel the world and eat all the food, and to fall in love, get married, and cliche as it may be, live happily ever after. I’m also hoping to learn more about myself and to make some new friends on this journey.

I’ve just realized that the last sentence almost sums up the anticipation part of the post, however, there is a bit more. While it’s my hope that people all over the world will see and read this post, I know that only a select few will read and comment. I am content with the fact that while the title says “Hello World” my reach only extends so far, and I am still learning about SEO and how to use social media to grow my blog.I’m even still learning more about blogging – even after doing it once in a blue moon for almost half my life. In fact, this site will probably be under construction for the unforeseeable future and I’ll get distracted by other projects, other concerns. Basically, I’m going try to live some sort of life…despite my not actually having one of any interest.

In the next week or so, you can read 100 Random Facts About Me, my very first book review (so nervous about it), and a Life Update. Be sure to follow me on social media – links in the sidebar for more details!

Anyhow, it’s almost eight o’clock at night and I need to feed Picasso, as well as get some sleep because the first of the month means bills have to be paid. I’ll try to get some more work done on the site before the next post, and maybe post a bit on Instagram…possibly even Snapchat?!

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